Vaginal massage which is also known as “Yoni” massage is mostly inspired by the concept of bringing total sexual pleasure and relaxation. It is an ancient idea that is lost on many Westerners. I love the idea of approaching a woman’s body particularly her vagina with a sense of worship.
This is not about having one orgasm but about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage.
It can be done alone, or done by a partner, either individually or as foreplay to lovemaking.
We already talked about the six-things-to-know-about-vaginal-massage in my previous blog and today we are taking a look at “HOW TO GIVE A VAGINAL MASSAGE”.
Here are the steps to give an unforgettable vaginal massage.
Circle the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your finger to stimulate arousal, varying from smaller circles to larger ones. Alternate the from light to heaving. At this point the woman should start getting aroused.
2. PULLING AND PUSHING
Push down on the clitoris and make small pull and push strokes and then slide your finger down the shaft of the clitoris. You need to do this on both sides of the shaft, keeping in mind that some women are more sensitive on one part of the clitoris than another.
3. ROLLING AND TAGGING
To tug the clitoris pull it gently away from the body by grasping at the sides and tugging back and forth. You can also move lower and tug the sides of the lips. Keep varying strokes from the top of the clitoris to down to the lips. To roll the clitoris start by holding it firmly and rolling between the thump and the index finger as if you are making a tiny violin motion with your fingers.
Using one or more fingers, tap the clitoris in varying rhythms from fast to slow to learn what her body responds to most.
5. G-SPOT MASSAGE
To find the G-spot curve your first two fingers like the letter C and slide them into the vagina. Feel for a soft, spongy piece of skin behind the clitoris. You can massage it by making a come hither movement with your curved fingers. Vary between fast and slow strokes. You can also tickle the clitoris simultaneously at the tip or place pressure on or above the pubic bone.
Make sure to mix up all the above and vacillate between stimulating the clitoris in the various ways, while also involving the G-spot and nipples.
This piece was written by Winnie Mandela Cann for Ytainment News; IG: iamwinniemandela; Email: [email protected]; Tel: +233547917989