The fact that many of us have marriage as the end goal for dating, doesn’t mean that all dating relationships automatically lead to marriage. It’s beautiful when two people decide to spend the rest of their lives together, and it’s also amazing when they realize marriage isn’t their reality, because they get to gain an amazing friendship instead. But the idea that you have to endure rubbish, just because you want to get married, is simply preposterous.
Marriage isn’t something you go into blindly. It’s a BIG DEAL. It’s not to be rushed! It’s worth taking your time to think about, prepare for and really rethink through thoroughly.
The pressure people put on themselves to get married at a certain age is so unnecessary. Like…take it slow! Be friends with the person you fantasize about getting married to. Are they the right fit for you? Are you the right fit for them?
Don’t go chasing waterfalls just to end up drowning in a pool of tears.
You’re not a failure if you’re not married at 25.
Love isn’t blind, so date intelligently & be smart about the decisions you make. When the time is right, the stars will align.
– With Love, From Love.